Choices

I recently had a discussion with several wonderful Christian men around the concept that there is no situation in which we humans do not have a choice about the behavior we make.  One argued that if you are imprisoned in solitary confinement you have all of your choices made for you by your jailers.  Another said that in a world of infinite choices a person might have a choice in every situation but in reality, with only finite choices available in any situation there will certainly be some times when we have literally no choice at all.  And a third posited that since even our birth is not our own choice how can we really say anything but fate, luck, or chance determines anything that happens to us in life. He believes that fate, or in his words, God's will, determines all choices well before they are made. I decided to respond to each question by taking the last one first.

I will rephrase the position of the third man in a more theological context: There is no such thing as 'free will'.  God chooses those He will favor and He creates the world around those He favors. In other words, not only do we not personally get to choose our parents, the rest of our life is pre-planned as well. What an unbeliever might call a crap-shoot, and this believer calls predestination. We may be more intelligent, so we get better grades, go to a good college and come out a good lawyer, business person or preacher. But our intelligence level, and how we will use it, is a completed trip-tic, as AAA used to say when helping us plan our pre-GPS road trips.

So I asked him what it means when he chooses to eat a salad instead of a double burger for lunch. Doesn't that 'choice' make some actual difference in the health of his body? He granted that IF he had made the choice that would be true. However he believes that God has already planned out his life for him and that the decision that day to eat or not eat a salad was made millenia ago when God set the universe in motion. I could not sway his belief. "If God is truly in control", he said, "then God controls EVERYTHING."

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The second man had agreed from the start that 'free will' exists in some form and he quoted some great Scripture to define his belief. However he illustrated his point that there are definitely times when there are just not enough choices available that you would ever agree to so, in fact, he thought, you sometimes really have no choice.

I used the first man's argument that if he was in a maximum security prison, in solitary, without even spoken or written conversation with guards, would not that mean he has no choices?  I told the story of Corrie Ten Boom, the Dutch girl who watched her believing sister Betsy die beside her in their wooden bunks at Ravensbruek Concentration camp in  1944. But before her older sister died Betsy told Corrie that God had gotten them through so far and if she CHOSE to remain in God's will, she would be fine, even if she died.

What would happen if she did not make that choice, Corrie asked her sister.  "Then you will die, or live, in fear.  Why do either?"  To her own dying day, many decades and many thousands of miles traveled as an outspoken evangelist later, Corrie preached the choice each of us makes, every day, every minute, to follow, or not, God's desire for us.

He found that interesting and said he would think, and pray, on it.

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The first man had listened to the first two conversations and said that he now understood how someone even in the worst imaginable situation could still have a choice in the most important decision of all: how to live your life without fear, and in the knowledge of eternal life.  "But what", he asked with a kind of heartsick moan in his voice, "happens if you die and get to the judgement seat of God and He finds your life wanting; unapproved; too bad for entry into Heaven?  You don't have any choices left at that point, right? You spent your life and now you have to pay for it, right?"

I could not disagree with Scripture.  We are told over and over that the life well lived in the will of God will be rewarded as in Jesus' parable of the sheep and the goats (Matthew 25: 31-46). But I could also not disagree with the action of Jesus on the cross, when he told the thief who believed in Him that 'today you will be with me in Paradise" (Luke 23: 32-43). And i know, along with Paul as he instructed his protege', Timothy, that God wants ALL of his kids, US,  to be with him forever in eternity (1 Timothy 2: 4).

 So I teach what I have learned: God will do all He can to get you in, right up to the last nano-second of your life, short of shoving you through the Pearly Gates. And the only reason He won't shove you through is that He wants you, and I, to decide for ourselves, make our own choice, to walk through.

Why? Because He did not create humans to be His slaves or robots, but rather in His own image. Able to reason, and decide, for ourselves.  You see, God had not wanted the first Eve to bite into that fruit, or King David to sleep with Bathsheba, or Jesus to have to die on the cross.  but they, and we, made and make decisions that create those consequences.

Some say that at several times in the imprisonment of Corrie ten Boom and her sister Betsy they could have recanted their support for hiding Jews and been kept out of the Nazi death camp.  Neither made that choice.

I believe that our universe is in God's control.  And I believe God chooses to allow us to make our own choices, with, or without, His assistance. I want to make my decisions, my choices, with Him rather than without Him. I, and you, have free will to choose to live as an elected child of God, or we can vote Him out of our lives.

I choose IN.

-Pastor Ken